Ramblin' Man
So... over the years I've heard it many times, many different ways. You need to be alone, be by yourself. You are so focused on other people that you don't even know what you want. So... over the years I've heard it many times, many different ways. You are so focused on yourself, you are so narcissistic, you can't even begin to imagine what a partner might need, might want. I think I've done both. Equally. Without a second thought to the other. I have been so self-centered, so self-involved. Shit, re-read my entires. Me, me, me, me-me. Then there are some where I try so hard to become what someone else needs. Musically, physically, etc. Like, liking my eggs the way my special someone does.... a la "Runaway Bride". And then... my sister died. And then... I have two boys... and then, nothing is about me, except maybe, in a peripheral way. My jokes, my stories, my humor, my excitement. It's all boy. All the time. Is it okay? Am I okay with that? I ...